How often should a non custodial parent see there child?

What is reasonable access to see your child?

Each family is unique and reasonable access for fathers depends on the individual circumstances. Some fathers see their children every day, while others might see them just once a month. Parents might share responsibilities and alternate weekend contact, or some fathers may have weekend contact every week.

Deadbeat or Not

The term deadbeat parent is a pejorative term used by child support advocacy groups rather than by Governmental Child Support Agencies. Child Support Agencies describe clients using terms such as not in compliance or criminally non-compliant. Compliance is judged by the paying party's performance in meeting the terms of the Child Support court order rather than the client's ability to meet the obligation. However, some local authorities have mounted campaigns targeting so called "deadbeats"

Is he or she running or avoiding the other parent

“Is he or she on the run or avoiding the other parent.”

So often noncustodial parent is looked upon as if they are a deadbeat, but in reality they are actually avoiding the other individual due to abuse of power while the custodial parent with a child can sometimes abuse their power as the primary parent.

Collaborating among both parents

Collaborating is good! Collaborating offers everyone a more nurturing break from all that bossy business. It restores for kids a sense of control over their own lives. Desirable behavior naturally follows. But Collaborative Parenting does not mean a free-for-all. Collaborative Parenting is a choice we can make when we manage to remember that how we do it matters more than getting it done.