How Not To Uck Up Your Children
- Raemi 4U Desired Creations
- Oct 14, 2021
- 2 min read
Updated: Oct 24, 2021
We all want to be the best parents we can be, but the reality is we can be giving to much which can truly screw them up as adults.
Welcome to blog 34. We have heard so many for years express how "Kids don't come with instructions".
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Raising my daughters
I can’t speak for other parents but I can speak for myself and I often felt tired and stretched with the burden and responsibility that comes with parenting. And becoming a single mother not by choice was even more stressful.
Kids without instructions
While parenting my children was difficult at times I never regret having the amazing daughters that I have in my life today. Each one of them is unique, but the blessing that I have experienced in raising them and the opportunities that came with be a parent will never be a thought in my mind to regret all that I have accomplished today, but I wish that I had been more knowledgeable of the various conversations I bring through blog 34 today that could have made an tremendous difference in the choice I made parenting and guiding my children academically.
“The Uck.”
Blogging relieves stress for me today, but when I felt my back against the wall I didn't have a clue about the many resources that can be found today. I have to admit that in my own parenting experience with my beloved daughters that I sometimes (uh, often?) get overwhelmed with needing to instruct them on things to help them become responsible and learn how to do things for themselves. While it was never my goal to live my vision through them, but I believe that it's every parents goal to see their children be the best they can be according to their own vision and what God has ordained upon them.
Tension
Learning how to reduce the tension and knowing that feeling tension as a parent is normal is important. While raising my daughters I have no clue that the tone in my voice or my demand of my rules could have been handled differently. While I don't regret my negative tone and attitude I have forgiven myself and learned to do better when I realized I had better in me.
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